I no longer see our reflection of each other I only see himself popping up in my mind here and there, but he now seems dark, untrustworthy, and truly not worth my time. Sadly, I was the house person and hopelessly in love, while the Venus person would not admit their feelings even though we both knew they did feel for me, just like I felt for them.. Actually, the guy told me "I love you, *insert my name here*" while we were in class, but we barely knew each other and I didn't know if he was being serious.. later on he denied it said it was a joke (but it wasn't). Double whammies. I, like YOU much prefer the beneficial planets:), I have someone venus conjunct my pluto in my 12th house . If you Love this person, let destiny take its course and have faith in divine/universal timing. Obsessive, perhaps a bit and with your planets in the 8th I am sure it's not one way:). I think we are a bit obsessive about each other although he seemed to be feeling it the worst. Thank you for any input/comments. I have recently encountered a gentleman whose Gem Sun, Mercury, Tau Mars and North Node falls in my 12th. My 12th house Saturn conjunct his NN and His Chiron and Saturn conjunct my NN. I just cant seem to walk away from him or shut down on him totally. It can point to an affair or clandestine encounter. Hes not cold at all. Here is a formula: Unless a guy acknowledges his feelings for you within a month, maybe 2 months (or 10+ dates) of serious dating openly, plainly, simply, without subtext, without mindgames or alternate plan Bs in his head,drop him. OH! Just not every second. Venus Conjunct Pluto Synastry. There is always a lesson and something you will learn and realize that the relationship was fated for some purpose bigger than you origionally thought but not meant to live out in this lifetime. THAT is a swift ender for my 3-placement Leo (read: THE QUEEN) who became TOTALLY OFFENDED by his antics. Venus is the planet of love which makes him lovable by his likable behavior and persuasive way of talking. In romantic and marital relationships, the purely material interest of the partners often comes to the fore. Now i understand the mystery of the house that touch our soul. We have our suns, moons, venus and mars all the same sign and his neptune falls into my 12th house. What's weird to me is that I can't decide if he's intentionally obscuring himself or if it is unintentional based on the nature of his personality. Should I run now?? It may not display this or other websites correctly. I never know what hes thinking, which is rare for me. Lol. There is definitely potential for dishonesty(especially Mars) so one partner could be dishonest or cheat on the other. so i point it out, and im more aware. Hi Aida! I am not saying there is not a spiritual/psychic or unconscious connection but don't assume he has other feelings than what he has clearly said. he is not interested, so I need to move onThe way I found of doing it is trying to understand why this happen. Weekend Love Forecast Leo Moon Mood With Some Dramatic STYLE, Full Moon in Virgo: March 7, 2023 Mutable T-Square Distractions, Sign up to be notified when the blog updates. why am I'm alone. At least I know I'm not the only one who is going through this. It could be due to different things.. like the planet person is insecure/shy/doesn't wanna show their love in an open way, or just that the house person doesn't "get" the planet person's way of loving. And if they are thus planted in your 12th House, soon the fun begins with you feeling like you were run over by a truck or a fast-moving train. But we fell in love, got divorced from our previous partners, came out at work, moved in together, got . The 12th house is about secrets, fears, the subconscious, criminal activity, spirituality, ghosts, dreams, meditation, retreat, solitude, imprisonment, museums, hospitals, institutions, merging, imagination, the intangible, secrets, and the ways that you sabotage yourself. Long time away for me. Who knows! When we met I felt like I had seen him before..we started talking online then decided to meet. inscryption cards. Posts: 45239From: Saturn next to CharmainecRegistered: Apr 2009, He tries to act like he's not the jealous type but he is. The general claim is that it disturbs the person whose twelfth house is activated. He is a Scorpio sun conjunct Pluto, Moon square Pluto (a magnet) with Mars in Libra conjunct Mercury. I can only state that my 12th Houser ended up pretty much devastating me perhaps it was because of his Sun/Gemini in my 12th House and my Vwnus/Sag in his 12th House. Not without good reason, psychic and spiritual connections are not all that common, but they show us what exists beyond this physical world. If he is also your 12th Houser, please know that anything with him will be brief, for the most part, or there will be a series of back-and-forth connections with intervals of his ghosting you for long periods. This is the house of Venus and Taurus, so there will also be some jealousy and protectiveness of each other as well. I can confirm that he appears in my dreams often and usually these are precognitive dreams. My Sun, Venus and MErcury are in Aries and fall into his 12th, my moon in Sagittarius falls int his 7th and 8th and his moon in Scorpio into my 5th and his jupiter into my 1st. Friendship Argh Making me suck because I still have high hopes . My Sun, Jupiter, and Mercury are in Gemini and fall in his 12th house. Every synastry aspect Ive read into says that he should have felt more for me and I just dont know if that could be possible. In this case, the partner will have different tastes. The 12th house rules things. This is especially true if that person's Venus is conjunct your ascendant (the more tightly conjunct, the stronger the attraction). Long story short, we both loved each other but it didn't work out for various reasons (I suspect fear and insecurity was the main issue - karmic connection). He was and is also a very adroit liar, and even though there was very great chemistry and connectedness between us, I had to end it. I can sense when he needs something even when he isn't next to me. Although much of the time we find out it's ourself. It was beautiful and tragic, and the deepest feelings I ever had. so we didnt mentioned it untill the last month, i couldnt stand it anymore, and i wanted clairity, if he ever had felt for me. It's like they can talk about everythng and anything and often don't even realize it. like sort of obession, that I can not let go off. At last i also found out that he was hidding some parts of his life. I just want to kiss his cheek and heal his wounds. In re: to the 12th House attractions, not surprisingly, I always attract Gemini natives mostly Lunar Geminis, or those with Gemini strongly paced in their chart; i.e., Mercury, Venus or Mars. You say hes your EX-best friend. I've noticed a few times I have had this placement with somone I care very deeply about, but for some reason the feelings are never mutual. To the point it's hard to explain to others especially because we're no longer together. I ran into him the other day out of the blue and he said hi but it was too painful for me to even confront him and I was so mad for so long. Romance and excitement are part of this synastry contact and it can show a relationship that feels as if it is developing too fast. His Venus is trine my Mars. But I always wonder if he feels the same because the 12th house is illusive, So many sites / people say that it is only the house person that will be affected / obsessed. Plus his venus is in cancer and my north node and asc are in cancer. My Jupiter falls into this man, I no longer with but had a deep connection. How is aspected by other planets. Its like the subconscious need to help him grow as a person. when i came back there was this weird thing between us. Sometimes the experience in this house is painful other times it's purely magical. I guess some things are just not meant to be. and yourself? Long story short I am finally over MY 12th House love for many of the reasons posted by Morag. However, I have a group of planets that fall my husbands twelfth house and hes had no complaint with it. Being with your spouse causes you to become more reflective and thoughtful. It is sometimes necessary to give people the spacevthey need, even if it hurts. I can definitely feel the effects of his planets in my 12th, but in your experience is the planet person affected? Maybe one person see's the other person as not measuring up to their standards. His acts of ghosting you and shutting you down via social media makes me think that he might also be a tad sociopathic thats a common trait. The descriptions of 12th house Venus in synastry always ring true for me, but I'm always the house person, so it totally sucks being so affected by someone who hides their feelings. And that he doesn't know what is good for him. 12th house is about what you cant grab, so it applies to his affection as you perceive it. Where you see Venus, you can expect things to have an easy flow. we are creepy to them, but cant seem to let us go. But as his Sun is caught up in my 12th House, he now and then tries to make an appearance. Oh yes i read about that but hes not like that at all. Tabitha has Venus in 12th House Pisces. He might love you but in his own way. I don't know. His mars is in my 12th house. I don't know where my venus falls in his chart. The 12th house is mysterious, magical, elusive, highly psychic, spiritual, and the most interesting thing about it in synastry is that relationships with planets here tend to function mostly on a unconscious level, and even a whole other world entirely. JavaScript is disabled. It's very common to do with placements in this house. To get this straight, the "he" you're speaking of is the 12th house person? We exist in very different worlds and it just is not convenient to tell him. I understand this. Specific to you, the overlay situation might have some play here, but my guess is that theres more to this story. He s got a new girl in his life and I wish him well! This woman matched all of his criteria (tall, slim & fair). I also was getting crazy muscle twitches. Uck. ouch ouch! He knows exactly how I feel about him because I've told him precisely and he doesn't feel the same way but he is always so concerned about if I'm dating/talking with anyone. She longs for a partner who will just let her "be": someone who will go with the flow, and give her plenty of alone time (12th House natal planets often demand periods of isolation). During the night I could feel his eyes, some times resting on me. I love him, he opens me up to questions I would never put a name to but a part of me just wants to run away where he cant find me. But we do know a lot more about it than we did some time ago. I attracted those people in my relationship. Venus in 10th House synastry relationships are formed in the field of business and professional life. My Gemini sun is in my 12th house on the Gemini/Cancer cusp. and weirdly 12th house does later show the othher person to live in those shoes. http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=29420, http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=14081. Mars in the 3rd house overlay: This position for Mars in synastry, much like the 1st house position, can be very stimulating in either a positive or negative way.On the one hand, this position can stimulate a lot of invigorating conversation between the two, and the house person can appreciate how vocal and confident the Mars person is in their speech. He makes me breakdown so many barriers. How do you reckon you and him approach 12th house matters like spirituality, illusion, Neptune stuff? He was drinking often(neptune) and because of this we had frequent conflicts(square to venus). Ha interesting this 12th house isn't it? The 12th house usually involves secret love affairs and unrequited love. I dream of him a lot. Designed to help you in the 1 minute it takes to read them. As somebody with a 10th house stellium, including Mars, Moon, & Venus with Aries on the midheavenif somebody fails to openly display their feelings for me, Im gone. Two years ago I met a man with whom I had a one-night stand, thought of seeing only for that one night at a conference, yet continued to see each other for ten times during these two years. I would love to here anyone's feedback. Hi thank you for visiting! Sometimes because we were deluded by the other, sometimes because we deluded ourselves, or saw things that were not really there at all, we felt they were, but that's not what they were. I also cant tell you, definitively, how theyre experienced by the person who has their twelfth house activated. Questions like "Why do I feel so attracted to this person?" seems to come to mind when they are in each other's presence. And with that 12th house influence and everything I read about Mars in 12th house I started asking myself if I should stay away from him. You must be open and not make assumptions. If venus is strong and well aspected than here is deep emotional and truthworthy conection. It was beautiful and tragic, and the deepest feelings I ever had.. I really have no idea whats going on but we have crazy placements, if anyone wants to discuss further please let me know!! For example, my first ex BF married to the woman, who was his course mate. more than likely you will see, there is a very big reason:) Often they are a teacher when it's a good person, or you have something to teach them. The 12th house person often has difficulty seeing the true nature of the planet and in the extreme this person might actually encourage you to become your own worst enemy. He shows me he cares with actions and he has told me twice he is in love with me. Does this mean that the love is just hidden, or doesn't really exsist at all and it's all in my imagination? However, I am sorry for your pain, and I guess the upside is you don't need to be deceived anymore the truth is out. Kinda like that, it can be magical, spiritual, and present us with unconditonal love that wasn't meant to live in this world. The 12th house is karmic for both for good or not so good both come through this house.:). The Sun in 11th house synastry overlay creates an atmosphere of friendship between you. Oh one more thing: I am a Sun, Venus & Jupiter/Sag native and my Venus is opposite to my 12th House Gemini placement (Uranus-RETRO). And there is a very strong square between his Mars and my own, which creates a lot of stress between us at times, and his Saturn is square my Venus. Yes gifts can be found, but contrarily mental illness, sexual issues, drugs and alchohol issues, you name it it's all here too. Be direct, ask questions, dig deep, ask for proof and confirmation. Venus person and House 1 person feel a. If his actions speak (this would be something your pick up on intuitively) that he loves you, but his words dont. Some are evil and just want to get in your pants. I'm so sad that he choose to be with someone else. Those this mean that he's thinking about me a lot too? Each person shares secrets, and even unconsciously. I only noticed it after my 12th-Houser came into my life and affected me deeply that is when my own natal Gemini placement came out in me full and strong. No way, jose. I need help with my situation. I have neptune (Sagitarius) in my 7th house with Gemini rising. Okay, this advice is not even remotely astrological, but take it from a person who dated a lot, and always with an intention to settle in a committed relationship. However I have to say until now he has been writing twice a year sending me wishes bday and Xmas. Some would be uncomfortable with someone seeping into their dreams or communicating with them in the ethereal realm. Where your Venus falls in your partner's chart shows where you bring these energies into their life. Orange. Except when one of us is going through any kind of emotional crisis, then we're pretty physically demonstrative. The only thing is boundaries, extremely psychic and and very empathetic which makes it very hard to set boundaries with a double whammy especially involving Neptune or the 12th house. But when I'm around him, it's like a physical stalemate. Im going through a bunch of Uranus and Pluto square transits right now and I have a very strong feeling this will not survive. It is because mars is a harsher planet? I leave, but I always come back after a while. Having someones sun in your 12th though, I dont believe it is a nice experience for the planet person, especially a fire sun. The Venus would be read as being in your first house since the conjunction is so close to your Ascendant. My own Dad was a Sun/Gemini native who made TWIN SIGN siblings (he was a classic Gemini man with multiple marriages and households, lol!) The Venus person gets all silly lovestruck everytime they see their object of desire. Ill blink and its 1am. And I do, I don't ever want to judge or criticize him. But yet together telepathically and spirtually. Its really SOMETHING, and at times its like being on a roller coaster ride. My 12th-Houser Sun/Gem Moon/Sag BROUGHT OUT MY OWN GEMINI COMPORTMENT, and then I also remembered that I had started out as Twins but that my Twin didnt make it in the womb. When they found out about him talking to me they were furious that he never told me about THEM! Its possible the blind spot is yours, not his.

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